Meanwhile, guys who for whatever reason have the courage to pursue someone anyway are more successful. Our proto-incel is left confused: he did everything he was taught, but was unsuccessful, while the guys who do the very things he was told were wrong is able to get dates all the time. Yep! To actually meet and be successful with women, you don’t have to (and should not) become a vile PUA or MRA, but you absolutely must ignore 99% of feminist advice and suggestions because it is harmful to most men (accidentally). Found this out myself the hard way.